It’s already Week 9 of the 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks challenge! The prompt this week is ‘Females’. That is a wide-open prompt! There are a lot of females in my family tree!
Monday, February 28, 2022
52 Ancestors in 2022 - Week 9: Females
Friday, February 25, 2022
Photo Friday: Frances Gunn
It's Photo Friday again. Today I am sharing a photo I scanned last month.
Meanwhile, if you recognize her and know her story, please let me know! Here is the back of the photo, showing the captioning.
Tuesday, February 22, 2022
52 Ancestors in 2022 - Week 8: Courting
It's already week 8 of the 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks challenge. So far I've been able to keep up! I hope I can continue to post each week. The prompt for the week is 'Courting'.
Normally if I hear the word courting, I immediately think of a young man trying to woo his future bride. I also start singing "Goin' Courtin'" from Seven Brides for Seven Brothers! But today I am thinking of 'courting' as 'going to court' for legal proceedings. I want to tell you about a court case involving an ancestor.
The story starts in 1901 when Charles Franklin Weiss married Mary E Tullis in St. Charles County, Missouri. The couple kept their marriage secret for nearly a month before announcing the marriage. I don't know why, but now I wonder if that may have been an early clue that there would be trouble in the marriage!
Eleven year later Charles (more commonly known as Frank) and Mary were living separately. In August of 1912 they were in court battling for custody of their daughter, Mary Esther. If the testimony is to be believed, Mary was less than an ideal mother. According reports in the local paper, the court testimony showed that Mary kept her daughter out late into the night while she attended dances. The child would have been only 4 years old at that time. Mary was also accused of seeing another man while her husband was away. You can read more in the article below.
The outcome of the trial was that the grandparents were awarded custody of Mary Esther. The grandfather took custody a few days after the trial.
The grandfather took custody shortly after the trial ended. I find it interesting that the Police Chief agreed to have an officer go along to keep the peace, but NOT to take possession of the child. I wonder why this was. Did he strongly believe that the mother should always be the caretaker of the daughter? Did he know that there was more to the story than what came out in court? Is it possible that Mary was not the bad parent that Frank made her out to be?
I've been unable to locate the actual court records. I plan to try again now that I am little more familiar with court records. I may have looked in the wrong court when I tried several years ago.
One more thing to note in the article. The grandparents were apparently given custody to allow the parents to work towards reconciliation. (Does it bother anyone else that the child is referred to as 'it' in the last sentence?!) Spolier alert: Any reconcilation they achieved was short-lived. Frank was back in court three years later to obtain a divorce. But that is a story for another post.
Friday, February 18, 2022
Photo Friday: On the Roof Top
Tuesday, February 15, 2022
52 Ancestors in 2022 - Week 7: Landed
Friday, February 11, 2022
Photo Friday: Grandma Susie
It's Photo Friday. This week I am posting a photo of my Grandma, Susie Janco Petrini.
This photo was taken at a family reunion in June 1993. Grandma had turned 92 just two months earlier. Through the years the family gathered for many special occasions, but this is probably the only gathering that we referred to as 'a family reunion'.Monday, February 7, 2022
52 Ancestors in 2022 - Week 6: Maps
It's time for another week of the 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks challenge. The prompt this week is 'Maps'. Maps can be very useful for genealogy. I've used Sanford fire maps for finding my city-dwelling ancestors. I've used plat maps to find the farms of my rural ancestors.
Maps are also great for showing distances. How far were your ancestors to the state border? Is it possible that they traveled the short disance across the border to marry in another state. Was the hospital in which they died across a state border? Do you need to look in that state for vital records? How close were your ancestors to other family?
That leads me to this map, a map of Illinois counties.
I am branching out to the Whiteside County Kolk family to see if there is a connection to my Madison County Kolk family. I KNEW that they were in Fulton, Illinois, and I KNEW that Fultion is in Whiteside County, Illinois. But for some reason, I didn't realize where Whiteside County is. I probably did a quick search on a map 20 years ago when I first found the death certificates. I probably came up with Fulton County instead of the city of Fulton. It makes a big difference—about 100 miles! Fulton County is about 125 miles north of Madison County. Whiteside County is about 100 miles further north!This is a little discouraging. It makes me feel that it is less likely that there is a connection between the two Kolk families. It is impossible? Of course not! They traveled 3600 miles across the ocean in a rickety old ship. 100 extra miles by land must have seemed like a piece of cake!
I also see some similarities when I look at the map. Alton was a small southern Illinois community surrounded by farmland. Fulton was a small northern Illinois community surrounded by farmland. Both cities sit on the banks of the Mississippi River. And both have the same ending sound—'**l-ton'. Is it possible that two brothers got off a ship in New York and separatley bought tickets to go to Illinois? Could they have missed understood each other and ended up in similar-sounding, but different, places. That's probably NOT what happened, and it's very possible that the two lines are NOT related. But I won't know unless I try to find out.
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